Discover the three kinds of love
"Probably no single subject in the concerns of man has received as much attention as love.
"It is not untrue that where one finds the greatest controversy, there he will also find the least comprehension. And where the facts are the least precise there one can also find the greatest arguments.
"And so it is with love."

This excerpt was taken from the book Dianetics: The Modern Science of Mental Health by L. Ron Hubbard.
How can you find true love?
Most Americans dream of finding true love, getting married and living happily ever after. But the alarming divorce and domestic violence statistics tell a different story. Some statistics show that 50% of all marriages end in divorce.
Apart from the personal trauma, it cost a staggering amount to Corporate America — employers lose between $3 to $5 billion every year in lower productivity, higher turnover and health and safety costs associated with it.
The problem is severe and it is getting worse. A breakthrough that effectively provides a solution, is detailed by internationally acclaimed author L. Ron Hubbard in his book, Dianetics: The Modern Science of Mental Health. He says:
"It has been discovered that there are three kinds of love between woman and man: the first is covered under the law of affinity and is the affection with which mankind holds mankind; the second is sexual selection and is a true magnetism between partners; the third is compulsive 'love' dictated by nothing more reasonable than aberration."
Here is what Mr. Hubbard says about the first two kinds:
"Perhaps in the hero and heroine legends there have been cases of the second kind, and surely as one looks about him in this society he can discover numbers of happy partnerships based on a natural and strong affectionate admiration."
The third kind of love
And what of the third kind? Here is what Mr. Hubbard says:
"Before the marriage takes place they only know there is a compulsion that they must be together, a feeling that each must be extremely nice to the other. And then the marriage takes place and more and more restimulation of ancient pain is felt until at last each is ill and life, complicated now perhaps by unhappy children, is an unhappy ruin."
The solution
The book Dianetics outlines a simple yet effective method to handle the root cause of this. Once all past pains, fears and compulsions have been handled, that dream of living happily ever after can be attained — a happy marriage based on a natural and strongly affectionate admiration.
An example is Sally and Eric Falkow who were headed for the divorce courts in 1986 with all the symptoms of the third kind of love described above.
"I was miserable, he was miserable, and the children were very unhappy," said Sally. "The only solution I could see was to get divorced." After applying Dianetics, the cause of all their unhappiness vanished and last year they celebrated their 30th wedding anniversary. "We really feel that we have had a good life together," said Sally.
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