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Is It Possible to Be Happy?
By L. Ron Hubbard

Is it possible to be happy?

A great many people wonder whether or not happiness even exists in this modern, rushing world. Very often an individual can have a million dollars, he can have everything his heart apparently desires, and is still unhappy. We take the case of somebody who has worked all his life; he has worked hard and he has raised a big family. He has looked forward to that time in his life when he, at last, can retire and be happy and be cheerful and have lots of time to do all the things he has wanted to do. And then we see him after he has retired—and is he happy? No. He's sitting there thinking about the good old days when he was working hard.

Our main problem in life is happiness, but I'll tell you more in a moment. The world may or may not be designed to be a happy one. It may or may not be possible for you to be happy in this world, and yet nearly all of us have a goal to be happy and cheerful about existence.

You know, very often we look around at the world around us and say that nobody could be happy in this place. We look at the dirty dishes in the sink and the car needing a coat of paint and at the fact that we need a new gas heater, we need a new coat, we need new shoes or we would just like to have better shoes; and so, how could anyone possibly be happy when actually he can't have everything he wants? He is unable to do all the things he'd like to do, and therefore, this environment doesn't permit a person to be as happy as he could be. Well, I'll tell you a funny thing—a lot of philosophers have said this many, many times—but the truth of the matter is that all the happiness you ever find lies in you.

You remember when you were maybe five years old, and you went out in the morning and you looked at the day, and it was a very, very beautiful day, and you looked at the flowers and they were very beautiful flowers. Twenty-five years later you get up in the morning, you take a look at the flowers—they are wilted. The day isn't a happy day. Well, what has changed? You know they are the same flowers, it's the same world, something must have changed. Probably it was you.

Actually, a little child derives all of his pleasure in life from the grace he puts upon life. He waves a magic hand and brings all manner of interesting things into being out in the society. Here is this big, strong brute of a man riding his iron steed, up and down, and boy, he'd like to be a cop. Yes sir! He would sure like to be a cop; and twenty-five years later he looks at that cop riding up and down and checks his speedometer and says, "Doggone these cops!"

Well, what is changed here? Has the cop changed? No. Just the attitude toward him. One's attitude toward life makes every possible difference in one's living. You know you don't have to study a thousand ancient books to discover that fact. But sometimes it needs to be pointed out again that life doesn't change so much as you.

Once upon a time, perhaps, you were thinking of being married and having a nice home and having a nice family; everything would be just fine. The husband would come home and you would put the dinner on the table and everybody would be happy about the whole thing; and then you got married and maybe it didn't quite work out. Somehow or other, he comes home late and he has had an argument with the boss, and he doesn't feel well. He doesn't want to go to the movies and he doesn't see how you have any work to do anyhow—after all, you sit home all day and do nothing—and you know he doesn't do any work either. He disappears out of the house. He's gone. Then he comes back later in the evening and quite an argument could ensue over this. Actually, both of you work quite hard. Well, what do we do with a condition like this? Do we just break up the marriage? Or touch a match to the whole house? Or throw the kids in the garbage can? Or go home to Mother? Or what do we do?

Well, there are many, many things we could do, and the least of them is to take a look at the environment. You know, just look around and say, "Where am I? What am I doing here?" And then, once you have found out where you are, why, try to find out how you can make that a little more habitable. The day when you stop building your own environment, when you stop building your own surroundings, when you stop waving a magic hand and gracing everything around you with magic and beauty, things cease to be magical, things cease to be beautiful.

Other people seek happiness in various ways. They seek it hectically, as though it's some sort of mechanism that exists. Maybe it's a little machine, maybe it's parked in the cupboard, maybe happiness is down at the next corner or maybe it's someplace else. They're looking for something, but the odd part of it is, the only time they ever find something is when they put it there first. Now, this doesn't seem very creditable, but it's quite true. Those people who have become unhappy about life are unhappy about life solely and completely because life has ceased to be made by them. Here we have the single difference in a human being. We have here a human being who is unhappy, miserable and isn't getting along in life, who is sick, who doesn't see brightness. Life is handling, running, changing, making him.

And here you have somebody who is happy, who is cheerful, who is strong, who finds that there is something worth doing in life, and what do we discover in this person? We find out that he is making life, and there is actually a single difference: Are you making life, or is life making you?

And when we go into this and we will find out that person has stopped making life because he himself has decided that life cannot be made. Some failure, some small failure, maybe not graduating with the same class, or maybe that failure that had to do with not marrying quite the first man or woman that came along who seemed desirable, or maybe the failure of having lost a car, or just some minor thing in life started this attitude. A person looked around one day and said, "Well, I've lost," and after that life makes him, he doesn't make life anymore.

Now, this would be a very dreadful situation if nothing could be done about it, but the fact of the matter is that it is the easiest problem of all the problems man faces: changing himself and changing the attitudes of those around him. It is very, very easy to change somebody else's attitude. Yet, you are totally dependent upon other people's attitudes—somebody's attitude toward you may make or break your life. Did it ever occur to you that your home holds together probably because of the attitude the other person has toward you? So there are really two problems here—you would have to change two attitudes: (1) your attitude toward somebody else; and (2) their attitude toward you. Well, are there ways to do this? Yes, fortunately, there are.

For many, many centuries, man has desired to know how to change the mind and condition of himself and his fellows. Actually, man hadn't accumulated enough information do this up to relatively few years ago. But we are making it a very fast-paced world, we are making it a world where magic is liable to occur at any time, and has.

Man now understands a great many things about the universe he lives in, which he never understood before. Amongst the things he now understands is the human mind. The human mind is not an unsolved problem. Nineteenth-century psychology didn't solve the problem, but that doesn't mean it has not been solved.

In modern times, the most interesting miracles are taking place all across this country and across other continents of Earth. What do these miracles consist of? They consist of people becoming well when they were ill, incurably ill. They consist of people who were unhappy becoming happy once more. They consist of abolishing the danger inherent in many of the illnesses and many of the conditions of man. Yet the answer has been with man all the time; man has been able to reach out and find this answer, so perhaps man himself had to change. Perhaps he had to come up to modern times to find out that the physical universe was not composed of demons and ghosts, to outlive his superstitions, to outlive the ignorance of his forebears. Perhaps he had to do everything, including inventing the atom bomb, before he could finally find himself.

Well, he has pretty well mastered the physical universe now. The physical universe is, to him, rather a pawn; he can do many things with it. And, having conquered that, he can now conquer himself. The truth of the matter is he has conquered himself. The religious philosophy of Scientology came about because of a man's increased knowledge of energy. Man became possessed of more information about energy than he had had before in all of his history; and amongst that, he came into possession of information about the energy which is his own mind. The body is an energy mechanism. Naturally, a person who cannot handle energy could not handle a body. He would be tired, he would be upset, he would be unhappy, and he looks all around him to find nothing but energy. If he knew a great deal about energy, particularly the energy of himself and the space which surrounds him, he, of course, would know himself; and that, in the final essence, has been his goal for many thousands of years. To know himself.

Scientology has made it possible for him to do so.

—L. Ron Hubbard, from the book Scientology: A New Slant on Life.


Scientology: A New Slant on Life is a collection of thirty of L. Ron Hubbard's best-loved timeless articles. Some originally appeared as magazine articles, while others are from his lectures and early radio programs; every one is a gem of wisdom and practical truth. Chapter titles include:

  • Is It Possible to Be Happy? (Contained in this newsletter)
  • The True Story of Scientology
  • Man's Search for His Soul
  • The ARC Triangle
  • Two Rules for Happy Living
  • What Is the Basic Mystery?
  • Happiness and Interest
  • The Dynamics of Existence
  • How to Live with Children
  • On Marriage
  • The Anatomy of Failure
  • Acceptance Level
  • Confronting
  • On Bringing Order
  • Professionalism
  • On Human Character
  • Past, Present and Future
  • Playing the Game
  • The Vocabularies of Science
  • How to Study a Science
  • Records of the Mind Are Permanent
  • The Race Against Man's Savage Instincts
  • The Third Party Law
  • Justice
  • What Is Knowledge?
  • Man from Mud
  • The Psychiatrist at Work
  • Honest People Have Rights, Too
  • You Can Be Right
  • What Is Greatness?

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